i really hate it when people tell me to “get over ” something. not even “i am so sorry for you”. but “get over it cause you’re being dramatic and stupid about it”. or even with just that attitude and tone of voice that suggests that i’m being overly dramatic. i know i’m capable of being that way and doing that, but most of the time, it’s genuine.  i really hate that. so please don’t ever do that to anyone. maybe they DO need to get over it. but until you truly understand the grief the person is going through, shut it.